refusing to call a trans person who has done bad things by their correct pronouns is enforcing the idea that trans people have to be worthy enough to gain even that basic fucking level of respect, whereas no matter what a cis person does no one would ever think of misgendering them for it
Except when boys don’t give into peer pressure or if they show any emotions then they’re girls or if they’re gay men they’re queens. Women are called manly and unattractive to make them conform to societal norms. Didn’t shave? So gross! Nasty man legs! Don’t look traditionally feminine because of body shape, weight, or tone? Ugh she’s so manly its gross! But you’re right it is wrong to intentionally misuse a person’s preferred pronouns even if they are a criminal of some caliber.